LLVM 13+ doesn't recognize `-stack-alignment` option
## Summary
When using `-mavx` with recent LLVM backend (LLVM 13 or later), LLVM optimizer fails with
```
opt-13: Unknown command line argument '-stack-alignment=32'. Try: 'opt-13 --help'
opt-13: Did you mean '--stackrealign=32'?
```
## Steps to reproduce
```
$ cat > Hello.hs
main = putStrLn "Hello world!"
$ ghc-9.6.2 -pgmlo opt-13 -pgmlc llc-13 -fllvm -mavx Hello.hs
[1 of 2] Compiling Main ( Hello.hs, Hello.o )
opt-13: Unknown command line argument '-stack-alignment=32'. Try: 'opt-13 --help'
opt-13: Did you mean '--stackrealign=32'?
<no location info>: error:
`opt-13' failed in phase `LLVM Optimiser'. (Exit code: 1)
```
## Expected behavior
The program should compile and link without problems.
## Environment
* GHC version used: 9.6.2 and master
* Operating System: Linux
* System Architecture: x86_64
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