perf: Group together packages by repo when verifying tarballs (#10121)

verifyFetchedTarball has the effect of deserialising the index tarball
(see call to Sec.withIndex).

verifyFetchedTarball is called individually for each package in the
build plan (see ProjectPlanning.hs). Not once per repo.

The hackage tarball is now 880mb so it takes a non significant amount of
time to deserialise this (much better after haskell/tar#95).

This code path is important as it can add 1s with these 38 calls on to
the initial load of a project and scales linearly with the size of your
build tree.

Reproducer: Simple project with "lens" dependency deserialises the index tarball 38 times.

Solution: Refactor verifyFetchedTarball to run once per repo rather than once per package.

In future it would be much better to refactor this function so that the
items are not immediately grouped and ungrouped but I didn't want to
take that on immediately.

Fixes #10110

(cherry picked from commit 7d46115b)

Co-authored-by: Matthew Pickering <matthewtpickering@gmail.com>