Sort out Hadrian colored output flags (fix #16397)

Hadrian used to have a separate flag --progress-colour to control
colored output during the build. After introduction of a Shake flag
with similar purpose Hadrian's flag became redundant. The commit removes
--progress-colour and switches to Shake's flag. The only difference
between the two is that Hadrian has special default mode when it tries
to determine if the terminal support colored output. The user can
override it using (Shake's) `--[no-]color`.