This adopts a patch from NetBSD's packaging fixing the `GhcThreaded`
option of the make build system. In addition we introduce a `ghcThreaded`
option in hadrian's `Flavour` type.

Also fix Hadrian's treatment of the `Use Threaded` entry in `settings`.
Previously it would incorrectly claim `Use Threaded = True` if we were
building the `threaded` runtime way. However, this is inconsistent with
the `make` build system, which defines it to be whether the `ghc`
executable is linked against the threaded runtime.

Fixes #17692.