We used to add the options when the way was enabled, but this caused
problems with the static/dynamic choice, as once the 'dynamic' options
had been added it wasn't easy to remove them. We therefore didn't allow
-static on the commandline if we'd already seen -static, which kludged
around the issue.

But apart from being unsatisfactory in the first place, this is a
problem if we want to allow -dynamic being on by default, as there
wouldn't be any way to turn it off.

So now we add C/CPP/linker flags required by the 'way's when flags
are requested, rather than during flag parsing.