template-haskell: Add putDoc, getDoc, withDecDoc and friends

This adds two new methods to the Quasi class, putDoc and getDoc. They
allow Haddock documentation to be added to declarations, module headers,
function arguments and class/type family instances, as well as looked
up.

It works by building up a map of names to attach pieces of
documentation to, which are then added in the extractDocs function in
GHC.HsToCore.Docs. However because these template haskell names need to
be resolved to GHC names at the time they are added, putDoc cannot
directly add documentation to declarations that are currently being
spliced. To remedy this, withDecDoc/withDecsDoc wraps the operation with
addModFinalizer, and provides a more ergonomic interface for doing so.
Similarly, the funD_doc, dataD_doc etc. combinators provide a more
ergonomic interface for documenting functions and their arguments
simultaneously.

This also changes ArgDocMap to use an IntMap rather than an Map Int, for
efficiency.

Part of the work towards #5467