This continues the clean up of the front end.  Since they
were first invented, type and data family *instance* decls
have been in the TyClDecl data type, even though they always
treated separately.

This patch takes a step in the right direction
  * The InstDecl type now includes both class instances and
    type/data family instances

  * The hs_tyclds field of HsGroup now never has any family
    instance declarations in it

However a family instance is still a TyClDecl.  It should really
be a separate type, but that's the next step.

All this was provoked by fixing Trac #5792 in the HEAD.
(I did a less invasive fix on the branch.)