add runMeta hook

Summary:
The runMeta hook can be used to override how metaprogramming expressions
are evaluated. It makes the metaprogramming request types explicit and
has access to the TcM monad. This makes it a much more convenient starting
point for implementing out of process Template Haskell than the existing
hscCompileCoreExpr hook.

Reviewers: hvr, edsko, austin, simonpj

Reviewed By: austin

Subscribers: thomie, carter

Differential Revision: https://phabricator.haskell.org/D501