[rts] Untag bq->bh prior to reading the info table
In `checkBlockingQueues` we must always untag the `bh` field of an `StgBlockingQueue`. While at first glance it might seem a sensible assumption that `bh` will always be a blackhole and therefore never be tagged, the GC could shortcut the indirection and put a tagged pointer into the indirection. This blew up on aarch64-darwin with a misaligned access. `bh` pointed to an address that always ended in 0xa. On architectures that are a little less strict about alignment, this would have read a garbage info table pointer, which very, very unlikely would have been equal to `stg_BLACKHOLE_info` and therefore things accidentally worked. However, on AArch64, the read of the info table pointer resulted in a SIGBUS due to misaligned read. Fixes #20093. (cherry picked from commit 1832676a)