Use lengthIs and friends in more places

While investigating #12545, I discovered several places in the code
that performed length-checks like so:

```
length ts == 4
```

This is not ideal, since the length of `ts` could be much longer than 4,
and we'd be doing way more work than necessary! There are already a slew
of helper functions in `Util` such as `lengthIs` that are designed to do
this efficiently, so I found every place where they ought to be used and
did just that. I also defined a couple more utility functions for list
length that were common patterns (e.g., `ltLength`).

Test Plan: ./validate

Reviewers: austin, hvr, goldfire, bgamari, simonmar

Reviewed By: bgamari, simonmar

Subscribers: goldfire, rwbarton, thomie

Differential Revision: https://phabricator.haskell.org/D3622