[macOS] improved runpath handling

In b592bd98 we started using -dead_strip_dylib on macOS when lining dynamic libraries and binaries. The underlying reason being the Load Command Size Limit in macOS Sierra (10.14) and later.

GHC will produce @rpath/libHS... dependency entries together with a corresponding RPATH entry pointing to the location of the libHS... library. Thus for every library we produce two Load Commands. One to specify the dependent library, and one with the path where to find it. This makes relocating libraries and binaries easier, as we just need to update the RPATH entry with the install_name_tool. The dynamic linker will then subsitute each @rpath with the RPATH entries it finds in the libraries load commands or the environement, when looking up @rpath relative libraries.

-dead_strip_dylibs intructs the linker to drop unused libraries. This in turn help us reduce the number of referenced libraries, and subsequently the size of the load commands. This however does not remove the RPATH entries. Subsequently we can end up (in extreme cases) with only a single @rpath/libHS... entry, but 100s or more RPATH entries in the Load Commands.

This patch rectifies this slighly unorthodox by passing no -rpath arguments to the linker at link time, but -headerpad 8000. The headerpad argument is in hexadecimal and the maxium 32k of the load command size. This tells the linker to pad the load command section enough for us to inject the RPATHs later. We then proceed to link the library or binary with -dead_strip_dylibs, and after the linking inspect the library to find the left over (non-dead-stripped) dependencies (using otool). We find the corresponding RPATHs for each @rpath relative dependency, and inject them into the library or binary using the install_name_tool. Thus achieving a deadstripped dylib (and rpaths) build product.

We can not do this in GHC, without starting to reimplement a dynamic linker as we do not know which symbols and subsequently libraries are necessary.