Make openFile more tolerant of async excs (#18832)

Fixes #18832

The repro [1] fails on linux with "file locked" and on osx with "too many open files". I don't know where the difference comes from, but the fix prevents a failure on both systems.

[1] https://github.com/luntain/misc/blob/master/Repro2.hs

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