implement Response File support for HPC

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This is an improvement to HPC authored by Richard Wallace (https://github.com/purefn) and myself. I have received permission from him to attempt to upstream it. This improvement was originally implemented as a patch to HPC via input-output-hk/haskell.nix: https://github.com/input-output-hk/haskell.nix/pull/1464

Paraphrasing Richard, HPC currently requires all inputs as command line arguments. With large projects this can result in an argument list too long error. I have only seen this error in Nix, but I assume it can occur is a plain Unix environment.

This PR adds the arguments srcdirs-from=<FILE>, hpcdirs-from=<FILE>, and includes-from=<FILE>. This PR implements Response File support for srcdir, hpcdir, exclude and include. All arguments are in one file and that file is passed like hpc @file; see comment !8194 (comment 436494). Passing the inputs as a file provides a bypass to the argument list too long error.