Don't permit data types with return kind Constraint

Previously, GHC allowed all of the following:

```lang=haskell
data Foo1 :: Constraint
data family Foo2 :: Constraint
data family Foo3 :: k
data instance Foo3 :: Constraint
```

Yikes! This is because GHC was confusing `Type` with `Constraint`
due to careless use of the `isLiftedTypeKind` function. To respect
this distinction, I swapped `isLiftedTypeKind` out for
`tcIsStarKind`—which does respect this distinction—in the right
places.

Test Plan: make test TEST="T14048a T14048b T14048c"

Reviewers: bgamari

Reviewed By: bgamari

Subscribers: goldfire, rwbarton, thomie, carter

GHC Trac Issues: #14048

Differential Revision: https://phabricator.haskell.org/D4479

(cherry picked from commit f748c529)