When the Win32 threaded IO manager shuts down, `ioManagerDie` sends an
`IO_MANAGER_DIE` event to the IO manager thread using the
`io_manager_event` event object. Finally, it will closes the event object,
and invalidate `io_manager_event`.

Previously, `readIOManagerEvent` would see that `io_manager_event` is
invalid and return `0`, suggesting that everything is right with the
world. This meant that if `ioManagerDie` invalidated the handle before
the event manager was blocked on the event we would end up in a
situation where the event manager would never realize it was asked to
shut down.

Fix this by ensuring that `readIOManagerEvent` instead returns
`IO_MANAGER_DIE` when we detect that the event object has been
invalidated by `ioManagerDie`.

Fixes #23691.