Handle abi-depends correctly in ghc-pkg

When inferring the correct abi-depends, we now look at all the package
databases in the stack, up to and including the current one, because
these are the ones that the current package can legally depend on. While
doing so, we will issue warnings:

- In verbose mode, we warn about every package that declares
  abi-depends:, whether we actually end up overriding them with the
  inferred ones or not ("possibly broken abi-depends").

- Otherwise, we only warn about packages whose declared abi-depends
  does not match what we inferred ("definitely broken abi-depends").

Reviewers: bgamari

Reviewed By: bgamari

Subscribers: rwbarton, thomie, carter

GHC Trac Issues: #14381

Differential Revision: https://phabricator.haskell.org/D4729