Summary:
Previously, the full database stack was used for ghc-pkg to
modify packages, which meant that commands like
'ghc-pkg unregister --user' worked the same as 'ghc-pkg unregister'.
Since package modification is a "read and write" operation, we
should use the flag db stack (which is currently used for reads)
to determine which database to update.

There is also a new flag --user-package-db, which lets you explicitly
set the user database (as seen by --user).  This was mostly added
to aid in testing, but could be useful for end users as well.

Signed-off-by: Edward Z. Yang <ezyang@cs.stanford.edu>

Test Plan: validate

Reviewers: simonmar, hvr, austin

Subscribers: simonmar, relrod, carter

Differential Revision: https://phabricator.haskell.org/D84