CorePrep: Eta expand arguments (#23083)

Previously, we'd only eta expand let bindings and lambdas,
now we'll also eta expand arguments such as in T23083:
```hs
g f h = f (h `seq` (h $))
```
Unless `-fpedantic-bottoms` is set, we'll now transform to
```hs
g f h = f (\eta -> h eta)
```
in CorePrep.

See the new `Note [Eta expansion of arguments in CorePrep]` for the details.

We only do this optimisation with -O2 because we saw 2-3% ghc/alloc regressions
in T4801 and T5321FD.

Fixes #23083.