Type inference for data family newtype instances

This patch addresses #23408, a tricky case with data family
newtype instances.  Consider

  type family TF a where TF Char = Bool
  data family DF a
  newtype instance DF Bool = MkDF Int

and [W] Int ~R# DF (TF a), with a Given (a ~# Char).   We must fully
rewrite the Wanted so the tpye family can fire; that wasn't happening.