Add instances for (:~~:) mirroring those for (:~:)

`(:~~:)`, the hetergeneous version of `(:~:)`, should have class
instances similar to those of `(:~:)`, especially since their
implementations aren't particularly tricky or surprising. This adds
them.

Reviewers: bgamari, austin, hvr, goldfire

Reviewed By: bgamari

Subscribers: thomie

Differential Revision: https://phabricator.haskell.org/D3181