insertIntoSleepingQueue is no longer public

No longer defined in IOManager.h, just a private function in
IOManager.c. Since it is no longer called from cmm code, just from
syncDelay. It ought to get moved further into the select() I/O manager
impl, rather than living in IOManager.c.

On the other hand appendToIOBlockedQueue is still called from cmm code
in the win32-legacy I/O manager primops async{Read,Write}#, and it is
also used by the select() I/O manager. Update the CPP and comments to
reflect this.