Allow atomic update of NameCache in readHieFile

The situation arises in ghcide where multiple different threads may need to
update the name cache, therefore with the older interface it could happen
that you start reading a hie file with name cache A and produce name cache
A + B, but another thread in the meantime updated the namecache to A +
C. Therefore if you write the new namecache you will lose the A' updates
from the second thread.

Updates haddock submodule