head.hackage: Use slow-validate bindist for linting jobs

This enables the SLOW_VALIDATE env var for the linting head.hackage
jobs, namely the jobs enabled manually, by the label or on the nightly
build now use the deb10-numa-slow-validate bindist which has assertions
enabled.

See #22623 for a ticket which was found by using this configuration
already!

The head.hackage jobs triggered by upstream CI are now thusly:

hackage-lint: Can be triggered on any MR, normal validate pipeline or nightly build.
              Runs head.hackage with -dlint and a slow-validate bindist

hackage-label-lint: Trigged on MRs with "user-facing" label, runs the slow-validate
                    head.hackage build with -dlint.

nightly-hackage-lint: Runs automatically on nightly pipelines with slow-validate + dlint config.

nightly-hackage-perf: Runs automaticaly on nightly pipelines with release build and eventlogging enabled.

release-hackage-lint: Runs automatically on release pipelines with -dlint on a release bindist.