driver: Export wWarningFlagMap

A new feature requires Ghcide to be able to convert warnings to CLI
flags (WarningFlag -> String). This is most easily implemented in terms
of the internal function flagSpecOf, which uses an inefficient
implementation based on linear search through a linked list. This PR
derives Ord for WarningFlag, and replaces that list with a Map.

Closes #19087.

(cherry picked from commit 0d70fbae)