Clean up the conflicting data family instances error message

Summary:
The way we were pretty-printing conflicting data family
instances in an error message was far from ideal:

1. If a data type had no constructors, it would print an equals sign
   with nothing to the right of it.
2. It would try to print GADTs using Haskell98 syntax.
3. It eta-reduced away some type variables from the LHS.

This patch addresses these three issues:

1. We no longer print constructors at all in this error message.
   There's really no reason to do so in the first place, since
   duplicate data family instances always conflict, regardless of
   their constructors.
2. Since we no longer print constructors, we no longer have to
   worry about whether we're using GADT or Haskell98 syntax.
3. I've put in a fix to ensure that type variables are no longer
   eta-reduced away from the LHS.

Test Plan: make test TEST=T14179

Reviewers: goldfire, bgamari

Reviewed By: bgamari

Subscribers: rwbarton, thomie, carter

GHC Trac Issues: #14179

Differential Revision: https://phabricator.haskell.org/D4711